Random & Candid

Relationship Ghosts

When I heard the song Realize by Colbie Caillat, I immediately thought of Bestie and her fuckelationship with her "soulmate" for the past 12 years. He is the one person she feels most comfortable with (and I think the feeling is mutual), they are great together, they love each other but the relationship is based on different things. To her, it evolved from sex to love. To him, it moved from sex to sex + love.

Since he got married 4 months ago, she's been learning to let go and move on. He has suggested "an illicit affair" (not that it was not that to begin with) but she wisely declined.

And today, she told me that she has decided to let go of the ghosts of this relationship. She realises that as long as she does not let go of the ghosts, she cannot move on and meet someone else. She has waited long enough and she does not want to wait any longer.

It's time and I am very happy for her.

Labels: Relationships

posted by Calla @ 12:36 PM