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She Needs Help

A dear friend has been lamenting about her bf of 7 months. She is getting all mental because he has not told his 13 year-old daughter about her. She finds because of this, the relationship is destined to fail and she does not see any hopes of the relationship going anywhere.

I asked if he treats her right, if he is ok with her friends.

all his close friends know me. all his band members know me. he brings me along
to all his gigs be it in the county or out of the county. go out for drinks
theatres etc with his close friends. he comes along with me to all of my pal's
functions. calls me when he thinks something is wrong, calls me to ask me if my
day's going ok, calls me every day. i have his apartment keys, alarm code,
i can use his apt anytime.

To me, there is absolutely nothing wrong with the relationship at all. I totally understand why he is treading so carefully when it comes to his daughter, she's just 13, probably rebellious and angsty, so it makes perfect sense that he doesn't tell his daughter yet. And for freak's sake, it's just been 7 months. Not 7 years.

Then again, why am I surprised. Coming from a person who lied to her therapist after her previous breakup, "because I don't want her to think I am a loser".

Labels: Relationships, Smack Me

posted by Calla @ 12:13 PM